Information for Children & Young People

What Is Child Abuse?

Although growing up can be difficult, most children and young people receive the love and care they need to develop into healthy, happy young adults.

But some are harmed (hurt, neglected and used) by adults or other children. Younger children may not be aware that what is happening to them is abuse.

Abuse can mean different things to different children, and can happen once or many times.

Physical abuse is...

...when children or young people are hurt or injured by parents or other people. Hitting, kicking, beating with objects, throwing and shaking are all physical abuse, and can cause pain, cuts, bruising, broken bones and sometimes even death.

Sexual abuse is...

...when children or young people are forced or persuaded into sexual acts or situations by others. Children might be encouraged to look at pornography, be harassed by sexual suggestions or comments, be touched sexually or forced to have sex.

Emotional abuse is...

...when children or young people are not given love, approval or acceptance. They may be constantly criticised, blamed, sworn and shouted at, told that other people are better than they are and rejected by those they look to for affection.

Neglect is...

...when parents or others looking after children or young people do not provide them with proper food, warmth, shelter, clothing, care and protection.

Child abuse sometimes causes physical injury, and often leaves emotional scars. People who have grown up being abused can feel worthless, unlovable, betrayed, powerless, confused, frightened and mistrustful of others. They might feel, wrongly, that the abuse is their fault. Talking to somebody who can be trusted can help children to feel better.

Acknowledgements: This page has been adapted from information on the Childline Web Site.